Breathe, Release, unfold: Embracing the Flow of Life. By Keren.

Keren Obara
3 min readFeb 5, 2024

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We live in a world that thrives on schedules, timelines, and calculated steps. From to-do lists to five-year plans, we’re constantly pushing, manoeuvring, and trying to force life into our desired mould. But what if the key to true happiness lies not in controlling the flow, but in letting it unfold?

Imagine life as a river. Sometimes, it gushes over rapids, its energy exhilarating yet demanding. Other times, it meanders peacefully, reflecting the sky in its serene depths. Just like the river, our lives have moments of turbulence and tranquillity. The true magic lies in surrendering to the current, trusting that even the twists and turns lead to a beautiful destination.

This isn’t about passivity; it’s about active acceptance. We cultivate intentions, set goals, and make choices. But we also acknowledge that life has its rhythm, a wisdom beyond our limited control. When we resist the flow, we create unnecessary friction, a struggle that robs us of joy.

Here’s how to embrace the natural process of life and find peace in its unfolding:

1. Trust the Journey: Let go of the need to control every outcome. Instead, trust that each twist and turn serves a purpose, even if it’s not immediately clear. This doesn’t mean ignoring challenges; it means facing them with open eyes and an open heart, knowing that growth comes from navigating the rapids.

2. Find Beauty in the Present: Stop waiting for “someday” or “when.” Appreciate the beauty and joy in each moment, no matter how big or small. Savour the warmth of the sun on your skin, the laughter of loved ones, the quiet miracle of a breath.

3. Embrace Imperfection: Striving for perfection is a recipe for disappointment. Let go of the need to fit some idealized image and celebrate the quirks and flaws that make you uniquely you. Imperfections are not roadblocks; they are stepping stones on a path of self-discovery.

4. Practice Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude for the gifts life offers, big and small. Gratitude shifts your focus from what you lack to the abundance that already surrounds you. It opens your heart to joy and appreciation, even in challenging times.

5. Flow with Change: Life is dynamic and ever-changing. Clinging to the familiar only creates resistance. Instead, learn to dance with change, adapting and evolving with each new season. It’s not about giving up your dreams; it’s about embracing the unknown with curiosity and courage.

Remember, you are not a leaf tossed about by the wind; you are part of the wind, an integral force within the ever-unfolding dance of life. So, breathe deeply, release your grip on control, and trust the flow. The greatest adventures often begin when we surrender to the journey and allow life to unfold its magic in its perfect way.

Live, love, laugh, and enjoy the ride!

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